Day 42: Leave a legacy of health.

Fem365: Fitness. Food. Femininity.

I might have already mentioned that I’m in the midst of Dave Ramsey’s “Financial Peace University” course. Dave likes to talk about “changing your family tree” in terms of dumping debt, learning how to manage money wisely, and then passing the information on to your kids, grandkids, etc. He is a proponent of change… Changing the way future generations think of finances: Rising up from the roots of money mis-management, growing a more solid financial foundation for your family, and then sustaining this positive direction of financial growth for future generations. I like it.

I was pondering the idea of “changing your family tree” today as I thought of two friends who recently reported to me — in the same day, at separate times — that one of their parents was dealing with a major medical crisis. Lord, time flies. I am approaching the age when my friends and I are having to think of the health of our parents. Let’s face it: We’re all getting older, and mom and dad — our protectors, our guardians, the backbones of our family of origin — will need help from us at some point in the future. It’s a scary thought to me; I’m not ready for it. Luckily, my parents are both extremely healthy so I don’t have to worry about it… Yet.

My parents with their pride and joy --- their grandbaby.

To my knowledge, the parents of the two friends I mentioned above do not fall into the medical conditions and demographics that I am about to discuss. However, their current medical crises got me thinking about the medical conditions — in general — that our aging society is dealing with today. Chronic diseases such as cardiovascular disease, cancer, and diabetes together account for the majority of all non-accident/injury deaths, and they are largely preventable according to numerous studies. “An impressive body of research has implicated modifiable lifestyle factors such as smoking, physical activity, diet and body weight in the causes of these diseases,” state the authors of an August 2009 Archives of Internal Medicine article. (I realize this is not the most current article, but the evidence has not changed over the last 2.5 years…)

A review of this article states that:

After adjusting for age, sex, education level and occupation, individuals with more healthy lifestyle factors were less likely to develop chronic diseases. Participants who had all four factors at the beginning of the study had a 78 percent lower risk of developing any of the chronic diseases during the follow-up period than those who had none of the healthy factors. The four factors were associated with a 93 percent reduced risk of diabetes, 81 percent reduced risk of heart attack, 50 percent reduced risk of stroke and 36 percent reduced risk of cancer.

The largest reduction in risk was associated with having a BMI lower than 30, followed by never smoking, at least 3.5 hours of physical activity and then adhering to good dietary principles.

Are you engaging in any of these four risk factors? Are you carrying extra body fat (notice I did not say weight, as some people weigh much more due to muscle mass/bone structure, therefore BMI may not be the best measure of excess body fat… But I digress…)? Do you smoke (dear heaven, I hope you said “no”)? Are you exercising regularly? How is your diet? Are you eating enough produce (please say “yes!”)? Is the majority of your food processed (please say “no!”)?

me and my boy

Think about these risk factors in relation to your life. Think about your future, and the future of your children who are going to have to deal with you when you develop cardiovascular disease, diabetes, or cancer. Do you want your children to have to deal with that? Or do you want to live a vibrant life for as long as possible?

Of course, sh*t happens and sometimes the healthiest person who does everything “right” will still develop one of these chronic diseases. But give it your best shot to avoid falling victim to them. When you change your behaviors and adopt healthier lifestyle habits you will pass these habits, traits, and values on to your children and grandchildren. You will change your family tree.

A legacy of health is the best gift you can leave your family as time (inevitably) marches on.

What are you doing to leave a legacy of health for your loved ones? Please comment below!

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Day 9: Beauty and Aging

Fem365: Fitness. Food. Femininity.

Welcome back to 365 Days of Fem! I had a restful weekend — I hope you did too.

I am totally out of touch when it comes to pop culture. We don’t have television, and to be honest with you, I am more interested in following food and health blogs than celebrity gossip sites. However, I must admit: when faced with a weekly “entertainment” rag (i.e. Us Weekly, InTouch, etc.) I’m like a ravenous wolf, ready to devour the information, even if it’s old.

My hubby recently brought home some old mags (summer ’11 issues) and I fell on them like a hungry jackal, scouring the pages for… I don’t know what! I didn’t find anything worthwhile. Except one thing. I have always liked Reese Witherspoon, and I love her response to a recent rash of criticism about her weight (from Life&Stlye Weekly, September 5, 2011 issue) :

Reese Witherspoon (Google Images)

“I am covered in stretch marks and cellulite, but it doesn’t bother me at all. I feel better – so much better – than I ever did in my 20s. I am calmer; I know who I am. And as a result, I feel much sexier… Sexuality and femininity is an accumulation of age and wisdom and comfort in your own skin.”

You go, Reese!

Ladies, do you feel the way Reese feels? I know I do! I’d love to hear your thoughts about beauty and aging.

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Day 1: Gratitude.

Fem365: Fitness. Food. Femininity.

January 1, 2012. Look around you and breathe in the new year… Breathe it into your bones. Can you believe it’s been twelve years since everyone wore those glittery “2000” glasses and partied to Prince’s iconic song “1999?” Twelve years since the turn of the millennium!? I regularly think of how lucky we are to have seen the millennium change. In the grand scheme of time, not many people can say they’ve lived through that.

In lieu of resolutions and striving for change, take a moment to appreciate where you are right now. What are you thankful for today? Think of one thing and breathe deeply. Let gratitude fill your body and soul. Is there anything else you’re grateful for? There is a “one thing” minimum, but if you can think of two or even three things you might notice something beautiful… A chain of gratitude. One thanks leads to another which leads to another and another. Soon you feel like the luckiest girl in the world.

As time marches on, for better or worse, we can be happy for the things in our lives that are good right now. Nothing can take these things away from us. No economic crisis, no upcoming presidential election, no war, no family drama, no personal health issues. This time, let the forest fall away and focus on the trees.

What are you grateful for?

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Vibrams update… And a rant.

Christmas came early — Santa got me my first pair of Vibrams! (Thanks, honey!) I’m wearing them right now, and I love them. I found a great site that you might want to check out if you’re at all curious about barefoot-style footwear: www.birthdayshoes.com. Cute, right? Like “birthday suit,” but “birthday SHOES!” Love it. I’ll let you know how the transition from running shoes to barefoot shoes goes during my morning walks.

Onto the rant. My hubby brought the following article to my attention: How Pizza Became A Vegetable Through The Magic Of Influence-Peddling (click here to link through).

This rant is going to be short and (not so) sweet, because I am still dumbfounded by the story. I can’t really wrap my brain around it. But I just have to say the following: I wholeheartedly believe that we as a people (I can only speak for Americans) are killing ourselves slowly by way of the Standard American Diet (SAD). By allowing legislation such as this to pass, we are disabling our society by encouraging children to eat food that is going to (eventually) kill them. Because of advances in modern healthcare, today’s “vegetable” (pizza) eating children may live to be centenarians, but they will not live a life of vibrant health and wellness. Rather, they will likely develop heart disease when they’re 50 and live out their remaining years on loads of medication in a constant state of feeling physically and mentally crappy.

The amount of processed, chemical-laden food that enters our bodies is astounding and school lunches are among the worst. I went to school before pizza and fast food became constants in the daily school lunch round-up. Pizza was offered regularly, but not every day. From what I’ve heard, pizza is now a daily option at most schools. No longer a treat, it’s standard fare. And now, to call pizza a vegetable? Because it has tomato sauce on it? That’s just an insult. It is promoting pizza as health food to children — individuals who are just learning how to make informed and healthy choices. Sure, it’s cheaper to serve pizza to children than high quality proteins and veggies, and of course, children are not going to squirm if they are offered a plate of pizza. But by teaching them that pizza is “normal” and can be considered a “vegetable,” we are allowing pizza to be categorized with the likes of yams, kale, lettuce, and broccoli. It is simply NOT an accurate picture of the nutritional profile of pizza (or any other processed, cheese-laden, greasy, high-fructose corn syrup containing fast food product that we allow our children to eat at school). We are hoodwinking our children, and I will absolutely not stand for it. I will never allow my son to name “pizza” as a vegetable. Learning about this recent legislation makes me that much more firm in my decision that I will send my son with a brown-bag lunch for his entire school career. He can make his own decisions when he is an adult. But for now, when I must help him make decisions, I am going to do my best to steer him in the healthiest direction possible since I know our government and school system (at least the “school lunch” part of the school system) isn’t going to do it for him.

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My Tattoo

A few days ago I was spending some time on the glorious time-suck we call “Facebook,” and I came across a fun comment thread about tattoos. A friend of mine is considering a typography tattoo of a favorite quotation, and her friends chimed in with their advice, personal experiences, etc.

It got me thinking about my own tattoo which I got just over one year ago. Here it is:

Now, I love my “ink,” but there’s a small part of me that feels funny about having a tattoo. I grew up in a household that did not approve of tattoos (yes, rebellion may have played a minor role in the initial decision to get a tattoo of my own). I have heard tattoos be described as “white trash” and “scary.” I do NOT consider tattoos to be trashy; rather, I think of them as part of an age-old tradition of expressing oneself through body art. Tattoos are (usually) beautiful, and I am proud of the design I chose… But I still have a hard time showing it off or talking about it when people ask me the meaning behind my tattoo. Until now. I know you didn’t ask about my tattoo directly, but I think it’s time to talk about it… So I’m going to take the opportunity right here, on my blog!

First let’s jump back to my tattoo-curious friend on Facebook. One woman forewarned her that typography tattoos WILL elicit curiosity and constant questioning about the meaning behind the words, often from perfect strangers. I seconded this comment and advised my friend to come up with a quick one-liner that satisfies the questioners’ curiosity without getting too personal. My “one-liner” is that my tattoo comes from a favorite quote of mine, “nobody can dim the light which shines from within.” ~ Maya Angelou

This is a true statement, but really, there was much more behind the word that I chose. I chose “Shine” to remind myself to be brave. To remind myself that it’s okay to let my essence — my own personal light — shine on others at full wattage without being ashamed or feeling like I need to dim it down. I wanted to shake my inner wallflower. I wanted a permanent reminder to follow my dreams, and permanent encouragement to cultivate the qualities that make me uniquely ME.

A year later, “Shine” means even more. It reminds me to allow my God to shine within my heart. To follow His guidance. To look inward at what I know is good and right, rather than blindly follow the expectations or guidance of people around me. Again, it reminds me to shine my own personal light on others, but it also reminds me to let others shine THEIR light on ME without feelings of jealousy, insecurity, or judgment. It reminds me to make the world a brighter place. It reminds me to be happy.

Do you have a tattoo? Why did you choose to get it? What is the meaning behind your design? Do you like talking about it, or does it feel weird?

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